If you limit your choices only to what seems possible or reasonable, you disconnect yourself from what you truly want, and all that is left is compromise. Robert Fritz, author of 'The Path of least Resistance'After 10 years, the wife starts to think their kid looks simply a bit too different, so she decides to do a DNA test. She finds out that the kid is actually from completely different parents.
Wife: 'Honey, I have something very serious to tell you.'
Husband: 'Yeah, what is it?'
Wife: 'According to DNA test results, this is not our kid.'
Husband: 'Yeah, sure. You don't remember, do you? When we were leaving the hospital, I had just settled you comfortably in the truck, when you noticed that our baby had pooped. Then you said: "Please go change the baby, I'll wait for you here." So I went inside, got a clean one and left the dirty one there.”
Moral: Never present a man with a problem which is not meant be solved in the most direct way by simple logic!