Normal is getting dressed in clothes that you buy for work and driving through traffic in a car that you are still paying for - in order to get t the job you need to pay for the clothes and the car, and the house you leave vacant all day so you can afford to live in it...
 
When you travel, remember that a foreign country is not designed to make you comfortable.  It is designed to make its own people comfortable. Clifton Fadiman, US Author
 
Mice die in mousetraps because they don’t know why the cheese is free